Simplifying Kibbe's Method | Inclusive + Embodied Style Support

December 26, 2023 Frani Beard

Breaking down the Kibbe basics based on what I've learned from my clients, friends and the internet! Also chatting about why I can't stand Kibbe's method sometimes, creating more inclusivity and accessibility within this method, and why embodiment might be the key to finding your style!

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Who would you be if not for Love infiltrating, integrating the shadow and the light,

reminding you that its Presence is never separate from you, but in every tendon and ligament, grounding you,

every flexion and exhale, propelling you, every guttu

Howdyyy 🙈😂 just existing out here! Hope life has been easy on you all. Hope your inner child is laughing and dancing and throwing tantrums!

I’m still writing my weekly love letters so let me know if you want to be part of that. I’m ge

Styling White Shoes for Fall and Winter | Flamboyant Gamine Outfit Inspo

December 14, 2021 Frani Beard

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Styling White Shoes for Fall and Winter | Flamboyant Gamine Outfit Inspo - I received some new shoes! Here are a few different outfits with them in mind and why they work for my yin/yang balance. Hope you enjoy!

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OUTFIT DETAILS:

LOOK 1:

Oversized T-shirt | Thrifted from my Dad

Highwaisted Trousers, belted | Thrifted from Glover's Secondhand in Columbia, TN

Veja Sneakers V-10 in Natural Marsala | Size: 8 (size up)

NY&Co. Trench (OLD)

LOOK 2:

OZMA Joan Crew Sweater* | Size XS | (Currently on SALE!)

Sweater Vest | Thrifted from The Find in Franklin, TN

Highwaisted Trousers, belted | Thrifted from Glover's Secondhand in Columbia, TN

Nisolo Ama Woven Mule in Bone* | size 8.5 |

LOOK 3:

OZMA Joan Crew Sweater* (Same as Above)

Sweater Vest | Thrifted from The Find in Franklin, TN

Target Brand High-Waisted Denim

Nisolo Ama Woven Mule in Bone* | size 8.5 | (Same as Above)

LOOK 4:

Target Brand White T-shirt Sweater Vest | Thrifted from The Find in Franklin, TN

OZMA Kate Jean in Black* | Size 25 | (Use code FRANI15 for a discount!)

Nisolo Ama Woven Mule in Bone* | size 8.5 |Same as Above!

LOOK 5:

Oversized Sweater | Thrifted from my Dad

OZMA Kate Jean in Black* | Size 25 | Same as Above! (Use code FRANI15 for a discount!)

Nisolo Ama Woven Mule in Bone* | size 8.5 | same as above!

Veja Sneakers V-10 in Natural Marsala | Size: 8 (size up) |Same as above!

NY&Co. Trench (OLD)

JEWELRY in this video:

Mejuri Croissant Hoop Earrings

Linjer Birthstone Necklace in Amethyst | Get 10% off the whole Linjer site with my code: FRANIMATTHEWS10

Join me on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/franimatthews I share about mindfully developing your personal style, learning to be with your body, and celebrating the deepening of self-trust and compassion. Would love to have your energy in that space so we can grow together.

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An outfit from a rainy, mid-autumn day.
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I shared some thoughts about my menstrual cycle with my Patreon community a couple days ago. Here's a little excerpt:
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"I've written about my menstrual cycle before, and I thought I'd s

You spend so much of your time
exploring the ruins to see what still lives,
to salvage what remains. Imagine
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what would happen
if you you wandered through a garden
instead of a graveyard.
(20211117)
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#alovelywaytobe #venusinaries #ariesven

There's just something about wearing just the right shade of red, about the leisure of reading a book in the sunshine, about wearing matching underwear that feels so ✨luxurious✨
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For some reason, bras and undies are the last thing I think ab

Colorado on film. (Breckenridge and Colorado Springs)
Man, I miss these mountains.
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#alovelywaytobe #coloradosprings #breckenridge #portra400 #filmphotograph

Golden rings in golden light.
@itsgldn is having their ONLY sale of the year right now through November 21st! 15% off orders up to $150 (excluding solid gold!)
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So you can get stunning and personalized jewelry pieces for yourself or to gif

A few moments on film 🎞✨
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1. The day I got my tattoo! It's healing up so beautifully, and I'm still just as obsessed with it as I was on day one. @serahsubmarine
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2. The day my dad and little brother drove down to deliver my preci

"This week, I retook an MBTI personality type assessment. I hadn't taken one since I was in early college, so I was curious to see if anything had changed and if some of my recent inklings could be confirmed.
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When I first took the te

My friend told me this outfit (when worn with my leather boots) was giving Han Solo, and it may have been one of the easiest compliments to accept? Someone psychoanalyze that for me. 🧐
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Vest: @thefindfranklin
Tshirt: @copelandband
Denim: @ozma_of_c

Soft Gamine Outfits I'd NEVER Wear as a Flamboyant Gamine

October 15, 2021 Frani Beard

Soft Gamine Outfits I'd NEVER Wear-- because I'm not a soft gamine. I'm styling some soft gamine outfits for you today, hopefully to bring clarity rather than confusion.

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Flamboyant Gamine tries SOFT GAMINE STYLE!

August 12, 2021 Frani Beard

Flamboyant Gamine tries Soft Gamine Style! | In this video, I'm chatting about the differences between soft gamine and flamboyant gamine and showing you how I'd dress in soft gamine style!

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AVAILABLE PIECES IN THE VIDEO:

Quince Linen Top* (gifted) in Drift Wood | Size XS | https://bit.ly/3vcA4Vp

KOTN Mock Neck Tank size S | https://bit.ly/3gm9Zy8 (referral code for first time shoppers: https://my.kotn.com/Frani)

Jockey Crop Top in Black | size S | https://bit.ly/3xxvNMZ

OZMA Neale Top* in Natural | size XS | https://bit.ly/2U8MAHL (Use code FRANI15 for a discount)

Nisolo Flatform Sandal* in Bone | size 8.5 | https://www.nisolo.uvwgb9.net/Ygdd7J (half size up if you have wide feet or high arches)

Veja Sneakers V-10 in Natural Marsala | Size: 8 (size up) | https://bit.ly/3dbf6hV

The trousers and shorts are secondhand + modified by me!

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Flamboyant Gamine Tries Soft Natural Style!

June 21, 2021 Frani Beard

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Flamboyant Gamine Tries SOFT NATURAL STYLE! - Testing out some soft natural friendly lines in this video, and trying to create a more casual flamboyant gamine look inspired by the earthy, sensuality of soft natural.

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OUTFIT LINKS:

THE SOFT NATURAL LOOK

Freedom Co. The Relaxed Tee | size S

Sezane Denim (Old) | Size 25 | Similar linked

Universal Thread Cardigan (old)

Nisolo Flatform Sandal* in Bone | size 8.5 | (half size up if you have wide feet or high arches)

Nisolo Lori Tote* in Sand

GLDN Three Graces Necklace* | (Use code franimatthews5 for $5 off)

THE FLAMBOYANT GAMINE LOOK

Jockey Crop Top in Black | size S

Ozma Utility Shorts* in Ceramic | size XS

Nisolo Flatform Sandal | linked above

Sven Crossbody Bag

Mejuri Croissant Hoop Earrings

Mejuri Bold Chain Necklace

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On Saturdays, I share videos about mindfully developing your personal style, learning to be with your body, and celebrating the deepening of self-trust and compassion. Would love to have your energy in that space so we can grow together.

ALMOST DAILY STYLE ON INSTAGRAM

I'm not really one to promote products like this, but this duo from @blume has me smelling so good, I had to share them with you!
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The Hug Me probiotic deodorant combats smells by adding helpful bacteria to the pits, so I don't smell like a

Just a photo dump. 🦑
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1. Tom is such a big guy now, and I often forget how smol he used to be. We've had him for almost a whole year now, and he's greatly expanded my capacity to love.
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2. I don't know how I survived all this time

Experimenting with the many outfits I can create is one of the ways I enjoy and curate my wardrobe, as well as express my personality and ingenuity.
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My fitted turtleneck is one of the most versatile pieces in my wardrobe. It stands alone fo

Very few beings grew mature
in my garden this summer
and the solstice approaches.
Not enough space for the roots
to stretch their legs.
Not enough nourishment for the leaves
to open their hands.
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I am still learning
how to honor the burn in

One of the topics I'll be sharing about in Sine Wave Dance (my new, digital zine, launching THIS MONTH!!!) is personal style through the lens of honoring the features your body already contains and supports— your personal lines and essence.
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A little summertime style 🌞
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Outfit breakdown:
Neale Top from @ozma_of_california (discount code: FRANI15)
Linen Pants from @onequince (a summer must-have, link in bio)
Go-To Flatform Sandals from @nisoloshoes | #inmynisolos
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Introducing: Sine Wave Dance, an Authentic by Frani ZINE! 🦑✨
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The name, Sine Wave Dance, comes from one of my poems and has stuck with me for about 2 years now, not knowing what it was for. This is what it means to me:
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* surrender

Happy Moonday, Summer Solstice, and Cancer Season! Here's a poem snippet for you. 🌞🦀
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I shared the full poem and what it means to me in my Gemini New Moon live chat. The replay is linked in my bio if you missed it.
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I read origina

Dressing For My Body Type All Week!

June 15, 2021 Frani Beard

Dressing for my BODY TYPE all week! | Flamboyant Gamine Style - Five days of #flamboyantgamine outfits from casual and comfy to classy and chic. She does it all! (lol)

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On Saturdays, I share videos about mindfully developing your personal style, learning to be with your body, and celebrating the deepening of self-trust and compassion. Would love to have your energy and support in that space so we can grow together.

OUTFIT DETAILS:

Look 1:

Copeland Tee (old) H&M Sweater (old) Ozma Utility Shorts* in Ceramic | size XS | https://bit.ly/34gzA4z

Veja Sneakers V-10 in Natural Marsala | Size: 8 (size up) | https://bit.ly/3dbf6hV

Linjer Lana Bag* | https://bit.ly/2RUR83P (Use FRANIMATTHEWS10 for 10% off the site)

GLDN Zodiac Necklace* | Similar linked, https://bit.ly/2TstwUw (use code franimatthews5 for $5 off the site)

Look 2:

OZMA Rell Jumpsuit* in Laurel | size XS | https://bit.ly/3wpZUpv

Nisolo Flatform Sandal* in Bone | size 8.5 | https://www.nisolo.uvwgb9.net/Ygdd7J (half size up if you have wide feet or high arches)

Linjer Margit Ring*, size 6 | https://bit.ly/3yv64Gf

GLDN Three Graces Necklace* | https://bit.ly/3uaHG9p (Use code franimatthews5 for $5 off)

Mejuri Editor Hoops | https://bit.ly/2SrrPXu

Mejuri Croissant Hoop Earrings | https://bit.ly/3f7BvPa

Sven Crossbody Bag | https://www.svenusa.com/style-109/

Silk Scarf is old, but OZMA sells beautiful ones.* | https://bit.ly/3whLwPE

Look 3:

KOTN Mock Neck Tank size S | https://bit.ly/3gm9Zy8 (referral code for first time shoppers: https://my.kotn.com/Frani)

H&M Wide Leg Trouser (old)

Nisolo Mariella Mules in Sand* | Size 8.5 | https://www.nisolo.uvwgb9.net/zag5k0

Universal Thread Belt (old) GLDN Zodiac Necklace* | see above link (use code franimatthews5 for $5 off the site)

Sven Crossbody Bag | https://www.svenusa.com/style-109/

Mejuri Editor Hoops | see above link

Mejuri Croissant Hoop Earrings | see above link

Look 4:

Oversized T-shirt ("thrifted"- it was my dad's)

KOTN Bike Shorts in Black | size XS | https://bit.ly/35lOJSI

Veja Sneakers V-10 in Natural Marsala | Size: 8 (size up) | https://bit.ly/3dbf6hV

Linjer Lana Bag* | https://bit.ly/2RUR83P (Use FRANIMATTHEWS10 for 10% off the site)

Target Sunglasses | https://bit.ly/3vpLQLa

Mejuri Editor Hoops | see above link

Mejuri Croissant Hoops | see above link

Mejuri Bold Chain Necklace | https://bit.ly/35yXVDD

Look 5:

KOTN Square Neck Tank in Black | size XS | https://bit.ly/3wrmJZZ

Quince Linen Pants* in Driftwood | size XS | https://bit.ly/3vjv3JX

Nisolo Flatform Sandal in Bone* size 8.5 | see above link for details

Universal Thread Belt (old)

Mejuri Croissant Hoops | see above link

GLDN Zodiac Necklace | similar linked above

5 Reasons Why I Couldn't Find My Personal Style

June 7, 2021 Frani Beard

Thanks to BetterHelp for sponsoring this video! https://www.betterhelp.com/frani - Get 10% off your first month of counseling with my link! In this video, I'm sharing some of the setbacks and resistance I experienced on my personal style journey. I hope you find it helpful.

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Flamboyant Gamine Tries Soft Classic Style

May 24, 2021 Frani Beard

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Flamboyant Gamine Tries Soft Classic Style- I'm creating a minimalist vibe for my flamboyant gamine frame by trying out soft classic lines! Find outfit details below to shop each look!

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Every Saturday, I share a video about mindfully developing your personal style, learning to be with your body, and celebrating the deepening of self-trust and compassion. Would love to have your energy in that space so we can grow together.

OUTFIT DETAILS:

CLOTHES

Quince Linen Top (gifted) in Drift Wood* | Size XS

Sezane Denim (Old) | Size 25 | Similar linked

Universal Thread Belt (Old)

Madewell Wide Leg Denim | Size 23 | Similar linked

SHOES

Nisolo Mariella Mules in Sand* | Size 8.5

Veja Sneakers V-10 in Natural Marsala | Size: 8 (size up)

ACCESSORIES

Ozma Dot Hankie in Oak*

Colorful scarf was from my mom.

Sven Crossbody Bag

Mejuri Croissant Hoop Earrings

GLDN Three Graces Necklace* | (Use code franimatthews5 for $5 off)

Linjer Paula Ring*, size 6

Linjer Margit Ring*, size 6

Five years ago today. 🥰
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#alovelywaytobe #mrsmatthewsiii

Flamboyant Gamine Tries Soft Dramatic Style

April 18, 2021 Frani Beard

Flamboyant Gamine Tries Soft Dramatic Style - This is the first installment of a series where I learn how to incorporate recommendations from other Kibbe Body Types, starting with the lush and curvy, soft dramatic!

This video is a collaboration with my beautfiul friend, Alesa of The Chic Chanteuse. She’s a soft dramatic and creates videos about how to dress her unique body type including solid tips about dressing for your coloring as well. Go check her out and subscribe to her channel!

Flamboyant Gamine Tries Soft Dramatic Style - This is the first installment of a series where I learn how to incorporate recommendations from other Kibbe Bod...

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OUTFIT DETAILS:

Quince Silk Shirt Dress (gifted, but not for this video) in Military Olive | Size XS

Quince Silk Camisole (gifted, but not for this video) in Military Olive | Size XS

OZMA Kate Jean in Black* | Size 25 | (Use code FRANI15 for a 10% discount!)

Nisolo Open-Toe Paloma Mules in Black* | Size 8.5

Veja Sneakers V-10 in Natural Marsala | Size: 8 (size up)

Shop my Linjer Edit* including the pieces mentioned in the video!

Get 10% off the whole Linjer site with my code: FRANIMATTHEWS10

Pieces in video: Linjer Margit Ring* Linjer Marte Locket* Linjer Lana Bag in Maroon*

*= affiliate link! I may make a small commission if you choose to make a purchase with my link/use my code. I am grateful to receive financial support this way.

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Every Saturday, I share a video about mindfully developing your personal style, learning to be with your body, and celebrating the deepening of self-trust and compassion. Would love to have your energy in that space so we can grow together.

Absolutely delighted to exist ✨🤸🏽&zwj;♀️🌝

Here’s a old poem that I’ll always love:

Look at all the beauty
that emerged in your life when
you thought you were trapped.
Imagine all that is possible
now that you know you are free.

Som

Life has been really cool and bizarre and silly and sweet. I’m writing a lot and trying new things and revisiting old things too.

I’ve been in Denver for a month. I’m re-entering my striped shirt era. And I’m very much in lo

27 today! 🦑🙈🌱 Happy new year, little Fran.

Of course, the dogs hijacked my little self-portrait moment.

And of course, here’s a journal entry:

Thank God, I get to use my voice!
Thank God, I get to finally say it:
I love you, Fran!
I lov

Flamboyant Gamine Styles Wide Leg Denim!

March 31, 2021 Frani Beard

Can Flamboyant Gamines wear wide leg denim? I'm showing a few of my favorite ways to wear my wide leg jeans, as well as what to look for when styling your unique body with compassion.

Flamboyant Gamine Styles Wide Leg Denim! -Subscribe for more videos like this: https://bit.ly/36WPpybCan flamboyant gamines wear wide leg denim? I'm showing ...

THE STAR OF THE SHOW: Madewell Wide Leg Denim | Size 23 (Curvy)

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Every Saturday, I share a video about mindfully developing your personal style, learning to be with your body, and celebrating the deepening of self-trust and compassion. Would love to have your energy in that space so we can grow together.

New default outfit alert!! Found a combo that I love, so when in doubt, I can mindlessly throw this look on and call it a day.
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The sweater was a b-day gift from my parents. I believe it's @anntaylor. Pants are the Kate Jean from @ozma_of_ca

I planted some seeds a couple Sundays ago, and the seedlings are starting to open up! Excited to have healthy tomato, basil, and lavender babies greeting me each morning. 🌱
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This jumpsuit is my go-to look for gardening. I feel so cute in it

This Saturday (13 Mar) is another New Moon Chat. Live on Patreon. 7:30pm CST
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Pisces season often has me thinking about what it means for something to be REAL, so that's what I want to talk about on Saturday. Naturally, this passage from Wom

Today’s outfit! I’m actually wearing shoes in this one, and of course they’re from @nisoloshoes. 😍

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#alovelywaytobe #inmynisolos

I love this outfit. Tom loves the smell of chicken soup. 🦊
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ALSO, this is one of my favorite silhouettes: Bloused camisole tucked into a pair of trousers and some shirt or sweater layered underneath and my latest Youtube video probably expl

Fear of misperception may have kept this stream of consciousness locked in my journal forever, all the more reason to share this poem on this day.
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To all the women who gave me courage and helped me see myself more clearly, I love you.
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#a

Tomorrow on Patreon, I'm sharing a new practice that I've begun whenever I get dressed.
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Inspired by watching my sister-in-law, @caiagrace, care for her baby with kindness, awe, and gentleness, I thought,
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When was the last time I

"Beauty is not caused. It is."
|Emily Dickinson|
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A tea bag shared that quote with me; I think about it all the time. I choose to fill my space with items and beings that stop my busy feet and racing mind and kindly pull me into th

I shared an update on my blog about how I'm feeling about closing my Etsy shop after 6 years of having it. Also, shared my intentions for my Patreon community. Link in my bio if you're curious!
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Why Can't I Find My Personal Style?

March 15, 2021 Frani Beard

The main reasons why you can't find your personal style might be different than you think. It might have more to do with your mind than your body type in the long run. In this video, I discuss some of the mental blocks I experienced while experimenting with my personal style.

Join me on Patreon! Every Saturday, I share a video about mindfully developing your personal style, learning to be with your body, and celebrating the deepening of self-trust and compassion. Would love to have your energy in that space so we can grow together.

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HOW TO DRESS LIKE A GAMINE

March 8, 2021 Frani Beard

Ever wonder how to dress like a gamine? Soft gamine? Flamboyant gamine? In this video, I'm sharing a few of my best tips for easy, effortless ways to create gamine outfits.

Ever wonder how to dress like a gamine? Soft gamine? Flamboyant gamine? In this video, I'm sharing a few of my best tips for easy, effortless ways to create ...

This video is the baby sister to my blogpost: Building A Flamboyant Gamine Capsule Wardrobe. Definitely check that out if you want something more in-depth!

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The one styling trick ALL GAMINES should master!

February 7, 2021 Frani Beard

What styling trick should ALL GAMINES master? Style advice for flamboyant gamine and soft gamine overlaps quite a bit. In this video, I share with you the most important style foundation for Kibbe's Gamine.

What styling trick should ALL Gamines master? Style advice for flamboyant gamine and soft gamine overlaps quite a bit. In this video I share with you the mos...

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@FRANIMATTHEWS

What's the difference between Soft Gamine and Flamboyant Gamine?

January 17, 2021 Frani Beard

What's the difference between Soft Gamine and Flamboyant Gamine anyway? In this video, I hope to help you differentiate between the two types! Let’s bring clarity and freedom to you in your style journey by helping you train your eyes to see your own body more clearly.

What's the Difference Between Soft Gamine and Flamboyant Gamine?In this video, I hope to help you differentiate between the two types, and bring clarity and ...